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Kristin
Super November 2019

And i thought the guys had it easy

Kristin, on July 1, 2019 at 2:41 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 6

Okay, so I just have to laugh. FH is dealing with soooo much more drama than I am with his friends/party/bach that I did.

I just had my bach in Vegas last weekend (I know, way early but I am out of town a lot leading up to the wedding and couldn't stand the thought of being away again) and it was amazing. I will say that I didn't really have to deal with too much of the drama leading up to it since my MOH planned everything and kept everything a secret. Anywho... we stayed at an AirB&B in Henderson which wasn't a favorite idea at first but everyone was actually way happier by the end of the trip that we did that instead of staying on the strip. We had a blast!

So I get back and now apparently all this drama is erupting... 2 friends are pissy because they are not in the wedding party and have threatened not to come to the wedding at all. FH was in their weddings like 10 years ago and don't talk much anymore but they were both still invited to the wedding. The boys are planning their bach in Vegas in September. FH's best man works for a company that is similar to AirB&B but their locations are company owned... he found an amazing place off the strip but the guys are complaining. 1 of the guys doesn't want to go because it isn't within 10 miles of his house in FL, another (his best man) is choosing to plan this for 2 weeks before his baby is born (that's its own brand of drama there) so I am sure that'll be an issue down the road, and a third is putting limits on everything the guys can do because his GF has access to his bank account so she can see what he spends.

I try not to laugh but I just find it funny that they guys are having SOOO much more drama than us girls.

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Latest activity by Kristin, on July 2, 2019 at 8:13 AM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I'm so sorry your fiance is dealing with that! We are lucky, we've had minimal drama in general with both sides. It was a bit of a pain getting all the guys to reserve their tuxes, but really not that bad!

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  • B
    Super July 2018
    Brittany ·
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    My husband's groomsmen had more drama than we did as well so they decided on a simpler bachelor party. My husband had all the guys stay at our place and they went to Top Golf during the day and BBQed at night. They drank a lot and had a blast. Prior to that there were endless fights on who was willing to do what, go where, eat what and spend what and my husband was sick of it. He didn't care about doing something elaborate, he just wanted all his groomsmen there. Also, an old friend was very pissed at us for not being asked to be a groomsmen too and he blocked us on social media after telling a groomsman and bridesmaid how he felt he should be a groomsmen so we didn't bother inviting him to the wedding.

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  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    Omg that sounds awful. That is humorous the guys can't seem to figure it out when you girls did! May I ask what activities (pools/clubs/etc) you did?? Were lines awful to get in to clubs? Any recommendations/tips you have would be helpful because my girls and the guys are going in September as well!

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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    OMG this is hysterical, especially the guy that doesn't want to leave his own house. Smiley xd

    My fiancé gave his best man some suggestions and let him take it from there. Since he has more guy friends that I'm sure would also like to hang out, I suggested on top of his bachelor party, have an open invitation to meet up at a local brewery.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Oooof. I sympathize - my side has 4 out of 5 are all in the same friend circle, and the 5th is so far out of town (and might not make it Smiley sad ) that she isn't really a factor.

    On FH's side? Out of 5 people, not everyone knew each other, his sister has caused drama on BOTH sides, and... apparently no one has gotten their tuxes, yet? (We have 53 days to go.)

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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
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    We went to a show called Absinthe at Caesar's which was AMAZING. Kinda circ-y but way smaller and a raunchy comedy show sprinkled in between. We also did the obligatory Thunder Down Under. I can't really say much for lines though, one of the girls (who's mom was like a second mom to me growing up) had a lot of hook ups to get us right in to clubs with bottle service etc so we pretty much just walked right in. But, if you walk down the strip, a lot of times you can find people passing out promos for free bottle service in exchange for posting your night on social media. We walked the strip 1 day but otherwise spend the hot bits in the pool at our AirB&B drinking for cheaper than on the strip and not having to worry about anyone else.

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