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Announcing elopement ideas??

White, on October 2, 2020 at 2:38 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4
I’m looking for ideas on how to announce we “eloped” to family and friends (on and off social media!) We had less than 15 guests and it was immediate family and very small. I know some people are going to feel hurt that they weren’t invited so I hate to post on social media saying we eloped first off because I don’t think social media is the way to find out for close family and friends! I was thinking of mailing out a few cards with some pictures our photographer took first to the people I’d rather not find out on social media and then after they receive them post it in social media. We really wanted to do a casual reception type dinner at our house and invite everyone but I know that’d be hard because of COVID and some family members wouldn’t be comfortable with coming. Ideas??

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on October 5, 2020 at 3:24 PM
  • M
    Super October 2022
    Michele ·
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    Traditionally it was very common to elope with just a witness for legal reasons and announcement cards were mailed out immediately following. There was no "wedding" with reception afterward because that was *the* wedding. Still is today.


    Social media is a Pandora's box. Spread the word privately. People generally understand why you choose what you do and keep feelings to themselves. If they don't understand and accept your choice, reconsider your relationship with them.
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  • Bo Miller
    Expert December 2020
    Bo Miller ·
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    You could always do a nice card saying that you eloped with a little description of the event and then some photos. I think that would be sweet!

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  • Katie
    Expert January 2021
    Katie ·
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    If it's people that you're close enough with that they'd be upset about not being there, I'd call them directly. I'd call the close ones and then post to social media or send an announcement. Definitely call the people you're closest to.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I think that sounds like a good plan!! Call the people who matter the most and send out some preview pictures and wedding announcements to others, then you can do the social post once you feel like you've covered your bases! Smiley ring

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