Annoyed with fiancé...

Girl you are not. Alone. FH is my soulmate, no doubt about it but he drives me up a wall sometimes and I’m sure I do it to him. Without those bad days, we wouldn’t know what good ones are. Mine knows he drives me insane and I had a meltdown yesterday so I know I was stressing him out. Your love is there and that’s what counts and gets you through the times where he pisses you off!!

Definitely NOT! We don't have kids yet but of course dealing with him, I feel like I already have one! In the best way, of course. Sometimes I act the same way but all in all, he will forever be the man of my dreams no matter how insane he drives me lol. I wouldn't want to be driven insane by anyone else

Oh yes. Everyone gets annoyed with one another sometimes.

You are definitely not alone lol. I feel myself getting worked up and I have to walk away. I love him to death but sometimes he drives me up a freaking wall haha

I think there is a precedent set to talk up how much we love our fiancés, which makes it hard when we don't feel exactly that way. I love mine, obviously, but I feel silly thinking about calling him those things. Daily annoyances are more real, in a way, than abstract concepts of soul mate or dream man or whatever. Of course he annoys you sometimes- that's what people do. Mine annoys me so much sometimes that I'm glad we don't live together so I have time he won't be there. But because it's not the blissful love-of-your-life chatter, I think people tend not to advertise it much.

Ya, I’m right there with you girl. A few months ago I went through this stage where I looked at her shortcomings and thought “.... forever?” But I love her and She’s my soul mate. And I want to spend forever with her special kind of crazy and she wants to spend forever with my special kind of crazy. We fight sometimes but we also learned in pre-marital that it’s healthy.

Two women can be a lot of emotions sometimes! 😂💗👰🏼🌈👰🏼

You definitely are not alone. We probably won’t be getting married at least once or twice before we get married. Lol! Just kidding but my FH drives me up a wall at times!

I second the motion over and over again🤣🤣🤣 you are not alone

Mine is a complete goofball and will purposely try to drive me insane because he thinks I’m adorable when I get all crazy, I love him more than anything, but yeah I definitely understand how you feel!

FH is totally my soulmate.

We're both human and we can drive each other up the wall and down the other side sometimes. That's why a relationship takes work - you have to acknowledge flaws and blind spots and disagreements.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

My fiancé is certainly not perfect and I don’t think he’s even my soul mate. But we are really good together and I love him and I’m definitely ready to commit to our relationship. everyone has gripes they just aren’t always honest about it. My fiancé certainly makes me mad sometimes but then I remind myself of his good qualities and why I want to be with him.

View Quoted Comment Oh my god that is totally mine, too!! He thinks it’s funny and then I let my mind run away with “how could he like to see me upset, that’s not love, blah blah blah”. A friend reminded me how important love languages are and that they show them differently than we do sometimes and that is okay!

I wish I could “like” all your comments on here!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks ladies!

Just know, and I mean this in the best way possible, that you probably irritate the heck out of him too!

My guy is perpetually running late and it makes the Type A part of me go absolutely nuts.

But at the end of the day, I wouldn't want to be irritated by anyone else.

Thinking it is inherently problematic to be annoyed at someone you love is kind of concerning. Everyone gets annoyed at the people they love, whether it be in a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a family relationship. He probably gets annoyed with you all the time. It's normal. What's not normal is to think that any relationship could/should be conflict-free. The important thing is that you have reasonable expectations of each other and your relationship, that you know how to charitably express concerns about things that are truly problematic as soon as possible so that you don't build resentment, and that you balance those criticisms with more positive/kind/loving interactions on the whole.

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Definitely! I watched his interactions with other people and he is always more reserved and always says what he should and pretty much acts like the perfect people person, whereas with me and other people he trusts, he can let loose and just be a goofball and part of that is seeing funny reactions out of me haha! I am constantly making little sound effects and I think he just wants to see what sounds he can make me make! Like "oooh what does this button do" kind of thing! I'm glad I'm not the only one haha

This is normal in every relationship. My husband knows EXACTLY how to push my buttons and drive me nuts and sometimes he just does it to be spiteful. But he usually knows when I have had enough before it ever gets out of hand. Sometimes I have to raise my voice, get out my feelings, and we have a "loud discussion" and then quickly move on. Thats just it, the person you marry is supposed to be your best friend but even a good best friend drives you nuts at times. That doesn't mean you love them any less or need them any less in your life. Its a part of every relationship we have in this life so OF COURSE it will be a part of the CLOSEST relationship we are supposed to have in this life. Just remember try and breathe, maybe roll your eyes and get it out of your system, then remember the reasons you fell in love with him. That always helps me deal with his nonsense and move past it

Girl NO! My FH is amazing and sometimes I get so annoyed with him. I feel bad too but I think its just apart of the journey. lol

That's all men haha. I joke with my fiancé that I'm not letting you go now because I've invested too much into you.