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Another Bridal shower question

Cassandra, on October 20, 2020 at 8:10 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 19
Does the groom come to the bridal shower?

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Latest activity by Yasmine, on October 21, 2020 at 2:06 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Not typically. In the south it’s traditional for the groom to come at the end to give the bride flowers, thank everyone for attending, and help clean up.
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  • C
    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Thank you!! I was just wondering!
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    Sometimes! I've been to bridal showers where the groom attended, and my fiance plans to go to ours. However, I've also attended bridal showers where the groom did not attend.
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  • C
    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Alrighty thank you!!
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  • M
    Super October 2022
    Michele ·
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    Traditionally only during the last few minutes to pick up the bride and take gifts home. Couple showers are a thing for mixed genders that the bride and groom request the hosts to invite, but generally if the guestlist is female only then the groom doesn't show up.
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    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Awesome thank you!
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    It’s up to you! My groom came to ours, but there were only a couple men in attendance. It was a really special occasion and I’m glad we got to share it.
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    My husband was in attendance. We had it in a community clubhouse, and there was a separate room with a pool table. He, his dad, and his grandpa played pool but came over for food. My husband also played the shoe game and another game with me, and he helped me open presents. I've been to several showers with this kind of set up where the groom is like....half in attendance. I thought it was nice since the gifts were just as much for him as they were for me.
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  • C
    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Yeah I just don't want him to be bored out of his mind if you know what I mean. Lol
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    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Thank you Hannah!
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I think he should towards the end to greet guests and thank them for gifts.
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    My husband showed up towards the end when it was time to open gifts. At most of the showers that I've been to, the groom shows up near the end to greet and thank people but doesn't attend the whole shower

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    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Thanks! I appreciate it!
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  • Dallas
    Devoted November 2020
    Dallas ·
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    We had two co-ed Wedding Showers. He invited the groomsmen and his male family members. They all played the same games with us, and we all had such a blast!
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    Savvy June 2022
    Cassandra ·
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    Yes!! That does sound like fun!
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Mine made an appearance at the end
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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated April 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    We are having a couples shower so he will be present the entire time. I just felt like the gifts and celebration should be shared plus this allows my dad and other family memembers to be present. In past showers I have attended it was all girls and the groom would only show at the end. I personally got bored, but then we both attended a mixed one and it was a blast!
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  • Shelly
    Devoted January 2022
    Shelly ·
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    Like Elizabeth, we are also having a couple's shower with our close friends, so it will be co-ed and my FH will be there. If I have a bridal shower, he will come at the end to help load gifts and to thank everyone in person!

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Normally they come at the end unless you are doing a couples shower
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