I’m in an anxious mess of my own making lol.
My FH has always wanted a great bachelor party, but since 3/4 of his groomsmen are from out of town, he settled for a nice dinner and a few local bars a couple days before the wedding.
Me, wanting him to be happy, coordinated with his best man to have all of the groomsmen surprise him by flying in 6 weeks before the wedding to throw him a full on bachelor party. I told them they were welcome to stay with us, and I figured they’d spend some time in NYC too (we live about an hour away).
So now, his best man comes back to me and says this is actually working out, all the guys said they could make it, and they’re about to book their flights and a hotel in the city for a night.
I know, I literally arranged this myself, what the heck do I have to complain about? I was really excited for my FH to get his party and to see how happy he’d get when he was surprised. But now that this is fully coming together I’m feeling a pit in my stomach, an unbelievable amount of anxiety because his friends aren’t the most responsible (and FH is pretty easily influenced) and I guess I was hoping they would just stay with us and not in a hotel so I’d know he was coming home at the end of the night, but I don’t know how I’m going to deal with the anxiety of him partying in the city all weekend and not coming home until Sunday night.
I’m overreacting, and being selfish, and if I was going to have this much anxiety I shouldn’t have arranged this, right? Well now it’s too late to turn back. I want more than anything to talk to my FH about my anxieties and to have him talk me down from it, but, that would ruin the surprise ☹️ Kinda just need a place to rant. I know I’m being irrational I’m just feeling so much stress about this and regretting my own idea.
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