I was raised Catholic, go to church on holidays and probably 4 or 5 other Sundays throughout the year. Definitely not devout. I am confirmed and baptized. FH is baptized Catholic but not confirmed and never went to church before meeting me. My Catholic Church won't allow us to get married there because he isn't confirmed. The church across town will but I am not a fan of their priest. He did my friends wedding and I thought he was actually pretty rude during the ceremony. So we booked a little white historical church that is now a museum. I keep going back to wanting a Catholic wedding. I'm sure it is Catholic guilt but it does bother me that we aren't getting married in an actual church by a priest. I don't know if I should forfeit our deposit and go with the priest that I don't really like just so we can get married in a Catholic Church.
Are there any other Catholic brides that are feeling the guilt for not getting married in a church?