Hi! Long time lurker here, I have never had to post before as almost any WR question I have had has been previously answered on the forum, which I love. However, I have a more personal question and would love some unbiased opinions. My fiance and I had a discussion in June of this year and decided we were ready to get engaged. We had been talking about it for awhile but at this point, we were officially ready. We began looking at rings and I texted my best friend of 10 years and told her we were looking. To my surprise, she was less than excited and told me we needed to talk. I called her within the week to see what was up and she essentially said she didn't think I was ready to get married. I kept asking why she felt that way, but never got a straight answer. She proceeded to corner me and ask me things like, "Why are you doing this?" When I would answer "To get married" she would say “AHA so you just want to have a nice fancy wedding”... Cont in comments..
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