I had already postponed my May 2020 wedding to January 2021. However I just found out my maid of honor is dropping out, my flower girl dropped out, and my brother also said he will not make it even in January as they don't feel comfortable after just having a new baby. Another postponement is difficult with our vendor because they are being more strict with their policy because everyone keeps postponing. Also they said if they do allow it they do not have anything for a long time so we really do not want to keep postposting being married and moving on with our lives. So we are thinking of cancelling completely and eloping. We thought in the long run it will save us money even though we lose deposits. I would hate to pay even more for this wedding to have the most important people not there. If I elope I know they cannot attend but at least it won't be dishing out thousands more and me being unhappy.
Did anyone else decide to completely cancel instead of postpone again? If you did are you planning on having a celebration at a later date when things do get back to normal?
