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Devoted October 2012

Anyone else feel hideous in their wedding dress?

Anonymous, on August 28, 2012 at 5:47 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 74

I want to know I'm not alone. I never found a dress I liked, and time was running out, so I just bought one. I figured after alterations it might look better. Today, after the 2nd set of alterations I broke down in tears. I feel awful in it. I feel it makes me look huge. My dad bought it, so I don't...

I want to know I'm not alone. I never found a dress I liked, and time was running out, so I just bought one. I figured after alterations it might look better. Today, after the 2nd set of alterations I broke down in tears. I feel awful in it. I feel it makes me look huge. My dad bought it, so I don't have the luxury of just saying "oh well" and finding another. I'm worried about ruining all of the wedding photos by looking so bad. Did anyone else end up wearing a dress they didn't really care for?

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  • Carole M (a.k.a "old tart")
    Master October 2011
    Carole M (a.k.a "old tart") ·
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    I pray you find the comfort and strength you need in therapy. When you hate yourself, you give your abuser more power. Your wedding day is a new beginning.

    And, trust me, if WW ladies thought you looked hideous, you would know it.

    Btw, you look lovely.

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  • Fawn
    VIP October 2012
    Fawn ·
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    You really do look gorgeous in it!!

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  • H
    Master October 2013
    HalloweenBride ·
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    You look gorgeous in your dress, so breath and remember every bride is AMAZING in their gown and pics. No matter how big/small, short/tall, small breasted/big breasted, ghetto booty/or no!

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  • M.S.P.D
    Master August 2012
    M.S.P.D ·
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    I agree with Carole... if people thought you were hideous on here they would be honest to a fault.

    But you aren't, instead you are gorgeous. Even if you don't see it, we do!

    I wore my dress that I didn't really feel beautiful in on my wedding day and it didn't ruin the photos. I believe that you will be absolutely stunning in yours!

    I am glad that you are seeking therapy (I personally think every woman should be in therapy... abused or not because all of us have things to workout). You are one strong woman and I am very honored to get to know you. I will continue to pray for your healing and strength. And am always here if you want to talk.

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  • Ana
    Super October 2012
    Ana ·
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    Your dress is beautiful and you look amazing on it!!

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  • Anonymous
    Devoted October 2012
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    Wow - I'm not used to this kind of support from people. It's especially awesome because it's strangers on the internet. You've made me feel so much better. I was in tears in the fitting room today. All of you lovely ladies deserve such wonderful things in life - I can't express my gratitude.

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  • Carole M (a.k.a "old tart")
    Master October 2011
    Carole M (a.k.a "old tart") ·
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    Don't tell us thank you. Look at yourself in the mirror in your dress and say, "I am a beautiful bride and my wedding day is a new beginning."

    I don't mean the thank you part in a snarky way.

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  • Angie
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    Angie ·
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    I'm sorry but i love that dress on you. and i'm of the opinion that there are certain dresses that certain brides should wear, based on how they look and how they make the dress look. and you make. that. dress. look. good!!! i want a dress that makes me look like a princess too...well, i have a dress i've been obsessing over and even though everyone says to wait, and to keep looking etc...i want that dress. lol

    and hey -- THE NEXT TEARS YOU SHOULD BE SHEDDING ARE TEARS OF JOY. no more sad tears! there's nothing to be sad about! i'm sure you're a wonderful, strong person on the inside and the outside! Smiley smile

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  • jennifer
    Dedicated April 2013
    jennifer ·
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    That's a really pretty dress!!! You look beautiful in that dress!!!!!

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  • Corinne S
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    Corinne S ·
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    You look gorgeous in your dress and do not look huge!

    You look great, hold your pretty head high and work it girl!

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  • The New Mrs. B
    Master May 2013
    The New Mrs. B ·
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    Amanda.. I think you look absolutely beautiful in your dress! I think the dress is beautiful (if you "settled" as it almost sounds like you did based on your post.. it was a good choice!) Smiley smile Also, it looks great on you! I haven't gone dress shopping yet, but I have been really upset about going dress shopping because I don't like the way I look and I'm afraid that my body won't do a beautiful dress justice.. It's difficult to have so much pressure put on your appearance (whether you like how you look or not).. and given your background, no wonder you have struggled.. but I hope you are listening to all of these WW ladies when we say that you look beautiful! Smiley smile You're so close! Congrats!

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  • Brittany
    Super August 2013
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    Your dress looks fabulous, and I can see why they brought it in some at the top. You have an incredible figure, and the person doing alterations probably wanted to highlight even more. Be confident. YOU (and the dress) look amazing.

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  • MrsKAllTheWay
    Super October 2012
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    Wow! You look absolutely stunning.The dress looks lovely on you.

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  • J
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    Jocelyn ·
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    You look absolutely beautiful in your dress. It's stunning!

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  • SophieMuffin
    Super May 2013
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    You look amazing in that dress! I am so glad you have found us here on the WW forums! I am super happy that you have come to see first hand why I RAVE about these forums and the support of all these awesome women (and groomzillas hehe).

    I know you will have a beautiful day and you look drop dead gorgeous in the dress. Your FH is going to gasp and say omg I knew she was incredible before but now she is just AMAZING! when he sees you walk down the aisle to him Smiley smile

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  • Robin A.
    Master July 2012
    Robin A. ·
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    Beautiful dress! Looks gorgeous on you!

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  • KrystalH
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    KrystalH ·
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    You look gorgeous in your dress, I think we are our own worst enemies and way to critical of ourselves

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  • Marlena S.
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    Marlena S. ·
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    You were beautiful in it! I can't wait to see what it looks like on the wedding day ^.^ I'm sure you'll look even more gorgeous.

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  • P
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    I am sure that you look beautiful in your dress, as many of the other ladies said, it is about how you feel, and you should feel beautiful on your day. Maybe there are some additions you could add to the dress to make you feel extra beautiful? Maybe an accented belt, or necklace?

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  • Brandi Elizabeth
    Devoted October 2014
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    The dress looks beautiful on you, you have nothing to worry about! You will be STUNNING on your wedding day!

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