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Ally
VIP October 2014

Anyone else have this feeling after marriage?

Ally, on December 23, 2014 at 11:33 PM

Posted in Married Life 25

so....I know that I'm not ready to have a kid yet...I need to get a better job and we want to get a house. I didn't have baby fever the whole time we were engaged....wanted to have at least a year to just do what I wanna do after the wedding But it's weird bc lately I feel like now after getting...

So....I know that I'm not ready to have a kid yet...I need to get a better job and we want to get a house. I didn't have baby fever the whole time we were engaged....wanted to have at least a year to just do what I wanna do after the wedding

But it's weird bc lately I feel like now after getting that that's just the next step and I'm starting to feel like I'm getting that fever everyone talks about! I think part of the problem is that my husband and I have already been together six years and we have had so much time to ourselves. the holidays is probably playing a big part too. I don't think by any means that kids are for everyone but does anyone else that thought they wanted to wait to have kids have the fever right after getting married?? It just happened so suddenly for me!

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  • Ally
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    If you hate your job as much as I do then I think we are! lol!

    haha that is weird though! nice to be able to relate to someone about it!

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  • Emma
    Master October 2024
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    OP, I know exactly what you mean! I've been married for a little over 3 months, but I've definitely been thinking of babies/kids more. We won't be having any for at least 3 more years though. I think it's because we've been living together for about 2.5 years and I have a natural mothering nature.

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  • Ally
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    Emma, I agree! I have a mothering nature as well! I love little kids, always have! I have always felt like I was meant to be a mommy! So the fact that it is actually coming close to being the time is weird!!

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  • Ally
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    Agreed Miss to Mrs! I don't think we will ever fully feel like we have enough money for kids but at least want to wait for that house and a new job! Smiley smile

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  • Mr. & Mrs. C
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    I think the only things stopping us is we want to save more and make sure we have absolutely no debt after we get our house. I really hope we'll be TTC by this time next year. I money and a house wasn't an issue than i would totally be wanting another one now. It makes it harder to wait because FH is such a great dad and has always been 50/50 with me aout raising our son. From diapers to feedings to bathtime.

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