I have been married a year now. I had a falling out with the best friend I ever had, during the wedding planning. I won't get into details due to privacy, but you have to believe that I did absolutely nothing wrong but she hurt me badly. I had never been treated so badly in my entire life, and even more than a year and a half later, I still think about how things went and just miss the old times we'd had. I still can't comprehend why things happened the way they did.
She sent me a facebook message and said she wants to see me. I haven't spoken to her until a month before the wedding when she RSVPed Yes. (She didn't show up).
We were friends for 15 years. Best friends. Almost sisters. She would have been my MOH had I not had a sister. But it's hard to think about facing her because I was SO hurt.
Has anyone ever gone through this? Did you end up friends in the end? I'm thinking I may see her, but I don't think I can really forgive and go back to the way we use to be.