I was talking with my FH this morning, and I told him that my sister was never on our wedding invitation list because she is abusive and manipulative. I then decided that that was the right moment to follow up with the fact that I had conflicting feelings about his father being there for similar reasons.
But FH told me "I wouldn't invite him, as he's not worth the trouble..."
I was so relieved to hear him say that, that I almost cried. Despite us being on the same page about it, I do feel slightly guilty about how happy that made me. I feel like it comes from a selfish place, even though it's really about protecting us both.
Has anyone else felt guilty about their relief on discovering someone wasn't attending your wedding?
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