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Master April 2018

Anyone really nervous to see pics?

Powers2, on May 9, 2018 at 5:43 PM

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My wedding was a few weeks ago, and it was a huge success. The dance floor was packed, my groom looked so handsome, the food was delicious and I got to spend time with a bunch of friends I had not seen in a while. I historically don't like how I look in pictures, and to add to that, I only lost...

My wedding was a few weeks ago, and it was a huge success. The dance floor was packed, my groom looked so handsome, the food was delicious and I got to spend time with a bunch of friends I had not seen in a while.


I historically don't like how I look in pictures, and to add to that, I only lost about 10 lbs (of the 30 I had wanted to lose) so I felt less than perfect in my dress. Some friends have sent me cellphone shots and 90% of them have me cringing. I hate how fat my arms look, I have a double chin and then some.


I am really, really nervous that there won't be one professional picture that I can look at without cringing. Am I alone in this fear? Someone tell me the professional pics will look better/ different than my friend's well meaning, but not so great looking pics?

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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    Try keto, ive lost 16 lbs in 5 weeks and i eat GOOD food. Theres so much good info online and endless recipes on pinterest. I will never go back to eating the "normal" way again.
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  • A_Mart
    Super April 2025
    A_Mart ·
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    I am having this exact same fear and I haven't even taken the pictures yet! Hopefully the memories captured in the photos will overshadow any body image issues. I'm sure to everyone else you look like a beautiful happy bride in your photos!

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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    Lol I would if I was able to stick to it, but I know I don’t have the self discipline for that. At all.
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  • C
    Expert September 2018
    catobx ·
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    Thank you kindly, girl. I just posted that to show you how *different* pics can be when you are in control and not; and to provide an "I'm with you on this" because it can be scary. BUT at the end of the day I know you will look incredible; as I said before no one is as harsh a critic as you are on yourself. I sent myself into an absolute tizzy over my epics and they turned out fine. Just *trust* the photographer. Also, your fiancé thinks you are the most beautiful thing to walk the planet so keep that in mind. You'll be amazing, I guarantee it. XOXO

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  • C
    Expert September 2018
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    OMG tell me more! I have been teetering on the Keto thing, but everyone I know who has done it or who I follow on IG has lost like 30 lbs in 3 months, exactly what I need. I think my problem is soda. I am so addicted. What are your tips? Meals in a normal day??

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Ladies: Personally I think you all look beautiful in the photos that you posted. Please don't give into fad diets, seek a dr's opinion before starting Keto, my brother lost 70 lbs in 8 months and the only gift he got from it was high cholesterol, and then gained it all back. If you would like to lose weight or firm up for your wedding make a lifestyle change, get moving, cut out bad carbs, and drink tons of water. Again seek a doctors advice before starting any type of diet.



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