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Adrian
Just Said Yes October 2021

Anyone rescheduling their planned wedding after having a minimony due to covid restrictions?

Adrian, on February 9, 2021 at 12:58 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 9

I was supposed to be married last June in Las Vegas, our venue didn't reopen until after the ceremony date, but we decided to go ahead with a mini ceremony with just my mom and kids in the park by our house. It was beautiful, but I had always planned on rescheduling the big (it's not really big maybe 40 people max) ceremony. We originally moved it to October 2020, then June 2021 and now we've moved it for hopefully the last time to 10/23/21. I put the deposit down last week on our new venue, we have changed everything about the original plan including where we are doing it. By the time the date gets here I will have actually been married for over a year, and I currently feel a little silly planning a 'wedding'. Would it make more sense to call it a 'commitment ceremony or a recommitment ceremony'? Would you put that on the invitations? And would you send out a whole new suite of invitations? Would you reinvite people who declined the first time? I feel like I'm floundering here, and would people really come to a ceremony knowing you are already married? I want to have a celebration and make it fun (and where my dress!) but I don't really what I am doing at this point!

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Latest activity by Heather, on December 17, 2021 at 11:29 PM
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Yes many on top of many couples are doing this
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    Dedicated November 2021
    Claudia ·
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    With covid forcing many to reschedule and/or change plans this seems very common now. From what others have mentioned in previous posts, and from personal experience, people are still very eager and willing to celebrate at a later date. A renewal or recommitment ceremony sounds great. I suggest inviting those that you want to be there that day, even if they've declined your previous plans. Situations change and maybe they'll be able to attend the new celebration you're planning. Good luck!
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    My husband and I are in the same situation! We got married at a minimony in October, scheduled the big wedding for March 2021 and just had to reschedule that again to October 2021. Our guests are definitely looking forward to it, especially the people who weren't at the minimony.

    We also changed the venue as well and we decided to cut our guest count too. That's where I will be wearing my big dress, our bridal party will participate in this one, literally the whole nine yards. Don't feel silly about it at all, COVID messed up things for us brides last year/this year but we definitely deserve everything that we've dreamed of as well.

    I would invite everyone who you want, even if they declined the previous one because their situations could've changed.

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  • Tee
    Dedicated October 2021
    Tee ·
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    Agreed with others! It’s your day and a time to celebrate. After the crazy year last year, I think people will be eager to celebrate. We’re doing the same thing (minimony this year and large celebration in feb 2023)
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  • Samantha
    Dedicated April 2021
    Samantha ·
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    Yep we were in the same boat! Originally planned our wedding for July 2020, ended up doing a small backyard wedding with just our immediate families on our original date. Pushed the big celebration to April 2021 and ended up making the difficult decision to cancel everything a couple weeks ago instead of pushing it off again. It sucks, but we're tired of putting our lives on hold to throw a party.

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  • Meredith
    Savvy July 2021
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    I completely agree with you, I feel absolutely feel silly 'planning' our 1 year celebration when it's looking more and more that we will still have a backyard celebration instead of the big venue we originally planned. At this point we are just having the conversation with all of our guests (we talk to the majority of them often) about what to expect and how the day will look different as much as we wanted that traditional venue celebration.
    In terms of the invitations we just planned on wording it something like a 1 year celebration/vow renewal and just keeping our mindset on having a blast celebrating with whoever is comfortable joining us and completely understanding if there are those who cannot no matter the reason. It is an awkward feeling to navigate all of this but you're not alone!

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  • Devoted August 2021
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    You can call it whatever you want! Covid has turned everything upside down, that’s not your fault!
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  • Alexis
    Savvy July 2021
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    I'm in the same boat- got married june 2020 and moved the reception to may, and now it's July... One be invites we say "celebrate our marriage" and also that it will be a 1 yr vow renewal and reception. We're still planning it like a wedding because our ceremony was pretty basic! We said our 'i do's' and had a cake from whole foods on the lawn. We didn't have a florist or a meal or dancing, and our families haven't even met yet! So at least for us we are planning the wedding we always wanted, and we expect people to come because they love us and want to celebrate us.
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    Just Said Yes November 2021
    Heather ·
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    I’m doing a one year anniversary reception as well. I’m calling it the “happily ever AFTER party.”😉 I put on there come eat,drink,and be married! Celebrate our one year anniversary- reception only! It will be nice to see everyone who couldn’t travel due to covid. And no worry if the formalities and pictures etc. we are doing a simple park shelter venue and getting tacos. 😊good luck on your special day!!
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