Apathy, the Killer of Wedding Planning

Ok the kate middleton one kills me - so freaking funny

take a break! you have time :-)

Do nothing wedding related for 2 weeks...you will feel better! I hope ;-)

For me, it goes in phases -- if I start to get obsessed with something or stressed out, I take a step back. The wedding is one day; the marriage is what matters and is most sacred to us. FH has been great about planning and the budget plus we're in a different phase of life than most so we're a little more chill/apathetic than most about details.

I think apathy on a small scale is good; I don't want to let anything "ruin" the fun we are having or the plans we are making for our future. If a vendor is unresponsive or a detail is missed, ok, that's not perfect, but what is? For so many things I'm kind of like "Eh, ok, sure, whatever works" because it's going to be fine no matter what. Right? We'll be married.

My MOH's band didn't show up at her wedding and the florist was late and brought the wrong flowers. It was stressful but she called in a solo artist who could make it last minute, and as for the flowers, nobody (even me) knew they were wrong. The day was beautiful anyway.