Hi everyone! Wondering what your opinions on bachelorette trips are. My bridal party is planning one for me and my sister-in-law (bridesmaid) can’t make it because she’ll have a newborn baby (I 100% understand and support that). But my future MIL said she probably wouldn’t have made it anyway, even if she weren’t having a baby, because she wouldn’t have wanted to pay for a trip, and that it’s not normal/fair to have a bachelorette trip. I wanted to keep the cost down so chose a location where most of the bridesmaids can drive to and we’re staying for a few nights.
Wondering if any of you planned a trip for your bachelorette or got pushback/judgement for wanting one?