Are Men/women Justified In Cheating If Married Sex Life Is Bland?

Hell no. There is absolutely no justification for cheating. If you’re that unhappy with your sex life, change it (books, experimenting, sex counseling) or get a divorce.

Never cheat.

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Lol. This is a great analogy. I didn't create the question, I'm just posing it to the community. Lol.

Talk. Have a conversation. This is your life partner. These are the things that you are supposed to work through. Cheating, "openly having another sexual partner", these things will quickly and slowly deteriorate your marriage with your partner and will eventually make you unhappy as both of those go against the basic creed of your union. Also, if you were in their shoes, wouldn't you want then to stay faithful to you and help you through this and respect you?

I think it's definitely time confront this matter. You can totally work through this and spice up your sex life again. Do research of how other couples have moved through this stage, you are definitely not alone.

All the best to your marriage.

Cheating is never justified. Period. I've been cheated on before and it sucks. It is ultimate betrayal.

*uck No!

There is NEVER a justification for cheating. If you love someone it's forever. You don't get to just go cheat on your spouse if there is something lacking. Instead speak to your spouse.

What's the point of getting married and being with that one person you love forever, if you just decide to cheat one day and ruin it all? I guess they didn't really love you after all....

It's very sad.

Cheating is never justify. Was sex bland before marriage? If is bland now is because you they want it to be. Find the way around back to life before marriage. There’s way around it, find what works for you and spice things up. This doesn’t justify you should go out there and cheat.

Heck no. Cheating is never ok.

No. If your sex life is bland, then talk about it and find ways to spruce it up. I have been cheated on and there is no way I would ever make someone feel the way I felt when I found out. If someone feels like there's nothing that can be done to fix the issue then end the marriage but never cheat.

Absolutely not! If you're not feeling fulfilled you need to talk to spouse about it and work on it together.