My own parents surprised me when they stated that they weren't going to attend the wedding unless a vaccine was released by that time. While I understand this sentiment, it kinda hurts to accept the possibility that I may be walking myself down the aisle.
Despite this, I kept on going strong, and kept wedding planning. Low and behold, I had a bridesmaid come to me and tell me that they could no longer be in my wedding because she and her family are going on this huge family vacation. Turns out, what happened, was that because of COVID they had to cancel their big family trip they were going to take this year, and had to reschedule it for next year. I get that, totally understandable, but why is it that out of the 365 days of the year, and all the months of the year, she and her family had to reschedule it to hit on my wedding day? I'll be honest, I would have preferred she backed out of the wedding day because she was worried about COVID, not because she wants to sip martinis by the beachside. You know, just a thought.
My wedding isn't till Feb. of 2021, and with this whole COVID situation getting more and more out of control, I came to the conclusion that I just wasn't going to have my bachelorette party, or a bridal shower at all, and it was an outcome I grew to accept.
However, imagine my surprise when I had a bridesmaid step in to plan my bachelorette party. Turns out that she had actually spent a lot of time talking with her mom about what we could do for my bachelorette party, and had came out with this elaborate plan to get the whole ball rolling. I really appreciated it, and I hope that when my bachelorette party hits I'll be able to properly convey how much that really means to me.
Last but lot least, the biggest surprise that came out of left field was when my soon to be aunt-in law and mother-in law were very passionate about hosting me a bridal shower in time for my wedding. WOW! I was just so surprised, and I did not expect this in the slightest. Honestly, when they told me that they wanted me to have the whole bride experience that really meant the world to me. I just couldn't help, buy say, over and over again how much I really appreciate it. On a side-note, I feel really blessed to have future in-laws that have basically adopted me into their family.
Honestly, to the brides that say, "you'll figure out who's there for you and who's not, while you're wedding planning," is so true. You're the real MVP.