We got married last year and my husband picked his best friend over his brother to be his best man. My brother-in-law was in tears when he learned this fact. My husband felt terrible, but stuck with his decision. Fast forward to today, we received the invitation to the best friend's wedding with a link to their wedding website. I went on their website and found out that the best friend picked someone else to be his best man. My husband is the very last person in the line up. So basically the lineup goes 1. best man, 2. groomsman, 3. best friend's brother (groomsman), 4. groomsman, 5. groomsman, 6. my husband (groomsman). I haven't told my husband yet, but I know he will probably be really upset. He had made comments previously that he figured it would be either him or the best friend's brother and if it wasn't either of them then he would be hurt. I am hurt on behalf of my husband at his point. I am not sure the best way to tell him because I know it is only going to hurt his feelings, but I am going to tell him anyways. Are we both wrong for feeling hurt over this?