Are you ditching the garter toss?

We haven’t discussed this yet, but I’m leaning towards skipping the garter and bouquet tosses. To me they always seem super awkward.

Ditched it! Ew. Awkward.

Definitely ditching. I find it so awkward.

We were going to do it at first but now we have decided to ditch it because our single friends are no longer single.

I'm skipping this. It's a pretty embarrassing tradition for brides who just have to sit in a chair and watch all her guest stare at her as a man gets under her skirt.

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I understand and get that completely. Have you considered throwing a bouquet as well or are you going to ditch them both?

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I'll pass

I left this up to my fh. I told him I'm not doing a bouquet toss, but if he wants this we can. Im really happy he said he wasn't into it lol.

Ditched, only because we ditched the bouquet toss first.

Skipped. I think it is so gross.

No garter toss for us. I'm not even wearing a garter!

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LOL, that's one way to do it, Brae. If he had asked to do it, would you have said yes no questions?

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Oh, I like this equality thing, Swtnss238. Why didn't you want to throw the bouquet?

View Quoted Comment Our guests list is 25, only a few women will be single and our crowd is a bit more mature(we old).

View Quoted Comment If it was a definite yes, then I would have done it, no questions. But if it was like a not sure, then I probably would have said things like "well do you really want to go under my dress with your family there?" He doesn't have strong opinions on the majority of wedding stuff, so when he does, I go with it.

Yeah, no. I don’t want him up my skirt in front of family.

Ditched it. I find it uncomfortable to watch let alone participate in.

No I think it’s weird and gross. My fbil’s wedding video is on YouTube and I watched it and they did it, and I still thought it was weird and gross so it’s a definite no.

We'll most likely still do it if my FH wants to since I don't really mind. We wouldn't have the garter up very high so he wouldn't have to go so far under my dress.

Ditching! It makes me uncomfortable and rather use the time for dancing and other things!