Are you inviting everyone who asks?

We knew from the beginning that we wanted to have a small, intimate wedding. So I've had no problem politely telling that to people who are clearly fishing for an invite. Saying "no" is typically not easy for me, but keeping the wedding small is important enough to me that it's been easy to say "We're keeping at family and a few of our closest friends"

No, I’m not sure if anyone can actually invite everyone that you’ve ever encountered in your whole life. Invitations are for those that mean something to you and or have been there for you and will continue to do so.

Definitely not, that would exceed our venue’s capacity and blow our budget out of the water.

The people who have asked if they're invited are almost always a no. If you have to ask, you probably aren't invited.

Our venue has very limited capacity so we literally cannot invite everyone who asks even though I feel terrible saying no.

No. We are not.

I have already tons of people who are asking if they are invited and I have told them no. It is mostly my FH who caves and says "well sure, you can come".

No way. We are only keeping people on the list who made the cut. We sat down and decided and that's what we're sticking to

I haven’t had anyone ask except for someone who was an obvious, definite yes....

We had a final list and then a list B of people that we invited once spots filled up from people saying no. but we’ve declined a few people who have asked. sometimes people think you’re closer than you really are lol

Nope. We can't afford to do that.

No, definitely not! But FH has a problem with this. He loves everyone! He'll run into someone he hasn't seen for awhile, or encounter them on Facebook. He can't wait to tell them he's getting married, which is fine. But that announcement almost always comes with a "hey you should come to the wedding, I'd love to see you!" UGH. No. That's not how this works. I have had to sit him down more than once to explain that our guest list is locked. There will be no more additions. He really doesn't get it. He thinks it's ok if people just "stop by" after dinner to say hello. Nope.

I am specifically not inviting people who ask. That is just so rude

No i would say I’m sending invites out soon and if you didn’t get one sorry.

Nope. Like I've mentioned on the other answers, if I don't know them or talk to them frequently, they aren't invited

No, we’re keeping our guest list down.

No, we have had a few awkward moments already about it and my FH always looks at me when we are asked which makes things even more awkward! Lol but I just politely say, our guest list is very limited we don’t want anyone to feel left out we might have a small engagement party or post wedding get together with those we could not have at our wedding.

View Quoted Comment It is !! I agree. I could never do that to someone — hey so are we invited ? Lol like how awkward !

View Quoted Comment Exactly !! My FH always feel so bad about not inviting this one and that one but not me lol ✌🏼

Nope, the majority of the invites went to family & maybe 10invites went out to our friends that we are really close to.