Are you inviting everyone whose wedding you've attended?

Not everyone, just the ones I have stayed in contact with. There are at least two that I am not inviting, that I went to their wedding. I tried to keep contact and hang out, but the communication was not mutual.

We invited some of theses who we attend their wedding. But not all.

No I don’t think they have a venue big enough!

My husband really struggled with this, but I didn't have this problem at all. I've only attended weddings with my husband after we started dating and we already extended an invite to all those couples!

Yes for sure we did this

I've only attended two, my brother and my sisters, and they are in fact invited. My sister is in my wedding party and my brother's wife and son are also in the wedding party.

Yes, but most of them were close friends or family. They wouldve gotten the invitation regardless.

Most of the weddings I’ve been to are family. I have a very large family (60+ first cousins, and most of them have their own kids now. We also all still see each other a few times a year) so all of them will receive an invite!

I've been to the weddings of some family friends' daughters/sons and they aren't invited to mine, but the couple from every wedding I've attended as an adult are invited to mine.

No. There were a couple weddings I attended a few years ago, and we're not inviting either of those couples. One lives in the same city as us, and the other was a surprise invite (I wouldn't have been offended if I hadn't been invited). I haven't seen one of them since 6 months after her wedding (about 3 years ago now), and haven't really spoken to the other.

I haven't been to many weddings. I was invited to one of my old friends' wedding but was unable to attend. I think it would only be fair to invite them! Other than them, nope!

The most recent wedding we attended of a friend we *didn't* invite to our own was over 5 years ago. If we haven't talked in 5 years it just seems odd to extend an invite.

The only wedding that wasn't family I've been to has moved out of state and we've been bad about keeping in touch. So no. FH says he's never been to a wedding

Yes there is one couple my FH wants to invite. The guys were close in college, but we haven't seen or talked to them since their wedding two years ago. I'm generally in the "more the merrier" mindset, but they will have to get cut if the guest list gets any bigger

We have 5 weddings including our own next year (it's gonna be an expensive one! ugh..) and all of the other couples are invited, but they would have been invited regardless.

What a hoot that would be. Hubby would have invited 200 plus couples whose weddings he has gone to, I would have done the same, then a hundred or more other family, and the 500-600 couples who said yes would have had to stand outside and eat lollypops, the only thing we could afford to feed that many people. . The " you have to invite those you were BM for to be in your wedding" and reciprocal they invited me to theirs, so I must invite them to mine, make sense to those with very small families, who have only been to 10 or fewer weddings. For those of us with big families, who between family and friends attend 3 to 19 weddings in most years, . . . and are in late 20's or older, it is ridiculous to think about. Like keeping track of 20 years of rabbits having rabbits.

Yes we are doing reciprocal invites. Weddings, christenings, etc. If you’ve gotten an envelope with money from us in the last three years or so then you better attend or send one back. Otherwise you’re dead to us.

I'm going to say in the pass 10 years I've been to 3 weddings and yes they are invited to our wedding the same with my FH he got invited but couldn't attend one of the weddings.

I have only been to one of my friends weddings and she was one of the first persons on there

We haven’t been invited to too many weddings, but we are only reciprocating for the family members’ weddings we were invited to