Are you inviting everyone whose wedding you've attended?

We did a 6 year rule... if we have been to theirs in the last 6 years
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We invited all of the couples we were invited to or attended there wedding. Most were either family/friends weddings. Those that were not, it is only polite to invite them. Think of it as getting a gift randomly or getting a drink at the bar from someone randomly... it's common courtesy to repay the favor!

As of now, there’s one guest that I attend her wedding and in recent review of my list realize she wasn’t on it. I’m kind of fighting with that because I believe I mentioned an invite prior to making an official list but my list is currently maxed number so it’ll depend on RSVPs 🤦🏽‍♀️

Nope. I don’t feel obligated in that way and most of those people are married with kids and I know they wouldn’t make my wedding a priority.

Hahaha NO! I thought about it but I’ve lost touch with some people and it would just be weird

I’ve only been to 2 weddings. One is invited (fsil) one is not she’s a distant cousin I haven’t spoke to in years

Negative! I can’t afford to invite everyone just because we went to theirs and I ended up having a fall out with the friend whose wedding I was in.

We have been invited to a few and they are mostly my FHs family, so they are definitely getting an invite. We are going to a wedding this coming Saturday for longtime friends, and they are surely going to be invited. However, sadly, I had to remove my FHs cousin from the guest list since we were initially told we are invited (same day as our friends wedding but we already RSVPd first,) and then we were told we are NOT invited. Therefore, they can kiss my boots.

No because we don't talk to all of them anymore

Not really. We attended a few weddings but the friendships got very distant with time so we didn’t but invite them to ours.

No automatic (“just because”) invites. Our list is based on those who are close to us and people who we regularly interact with, invite to our parties and gatherings, etc.

Yes. Most of the weddings we've attending we were in the wedding or pretty close to the bride and groom, so it's a no brainer!

Some we are. One couple who’s wedding we attended, are NOT invited!! Their wedding ended in a fist fight!! The sad part was the bride and from started it!!

Sort of, one of my bridesmaids is the only wedding we've attended and I was one of her bridesmaids too. We grew up frends in high school and she's been friends with my FH through high school too so she was definately invited, the bridesmaid spot was a little because I was also one of hers

No, it was dependent upon the current relationship.

I didn’t invite some people whose Wedding I was invited to whether I went or not (I went to one, but not the other). I am not in contact with either of them and have no plans to be.

Nope. Some of those weddings had been decades in the past. Anyway, it's not reciprocal.

Go at this differently. Decide how many people you are comfortable with (we compromised on 100 people) and can afford. Divide that number in half. He invites his half; you invite yours.

The last wedding I went to was my bro in laws. Yes, him and my sis in law are invited. Other than that we did not do we went so you can come type of invitation.

Heck no! I’ve been to so many wedding out of kind gesture (I never want to tell people no). I don’t want people to come who I’m not close with. Plus we don’t have the room!

Yes. But to be honest we have not been on a lot of weddings!

I haven't attending too many weddings but I do believe everyone that I have gone to a wedding for is invited, except maybe one but that was so many years ago. My FH hasn't attending many weddings either but I think his are on the list too. We didn't invite them because they invited us to theirs, we just invited them because we wanted them there.