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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Are you inviting exes?

Lynnie, on September 3, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 106

Are there any old exes you've remained friends with who made it on the guest list? Next Question: Are you inviting everyone who asks? Back to the Beginning: Who made the cut?

Are there any old exes you've remained friends with who made it on the guest list?


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Next Question: Are you inviting everyone who asks?

Back to the Beginning: Who made the cut?

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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    We've dated since we were 16, so any exes were just high school relationships which don't really count.

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  • Laura
    VIP November 2019
    Laura ·
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    Why would I want to be reminded of some of my poorest life choices at my wedding? Anyway, there’s only one I’m mildly friendly with; he called one day, asked what I was doing “(whatever it was) with my fiancé”. Rushed off the phone and haven’t heard from him since!
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  • Kristal
    Expert February 2020
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    Of all my exes, one is invited because he and his wife are two of my best friends.

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  • Sara
    Expert February 2020
    Sara ·
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    No exes. We only have a few between the two of us but they're not people we would invite. My daughters dad didn't invite us to his wedding so that made it a lot easier to not invite him to ours.
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    LMAO this could not take place. Heck no!!! Our exes are terrible people.

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Noooo. I don't have any ex's and FH isn't close to many of his ex's.
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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    That is a big negative. I think they would destroy it, at least mine would. FH ex (mother of his child) would feel super uncomfortable and I think would be offended if we did invite her.

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  • Savvy December 2020
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    Absolutely NOT and thts a NO for FH as well NO drama at our wedding
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  • Paula
    Super September 2019
    Paula ·
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    Absolutely no way will any exes be invited

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  • Keri
    Expert November 2019
    Keri ·
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    Not a chance.

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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    Nope!!! I don't even know why they would even come up in conversation.
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  • Renee
    Super June 2020
    Renee ·
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    Girl I’d be on 60 minutes with Lester Holt... not for good news either.
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  • H
    Super September 2019
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    That would be a hard no from is both 😂
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    Definitely not! We aren't even friends with any of our exes, thank goodness.

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  • Jessica
    Beginner September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Yes, I have 1 ex that’s still a friend, and my FH has no problem with him being there. In fact he’s the one that mentioned my ex and maybe inviting him. ☺️
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    Not only is my ex my best friend, he will be standing in my wedding as my man of honor!
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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    No....an ex does not belong at your wedding. Friend or not.
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  • Courtney
    Dedicated July 2020
    Courtney ·
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    I will have my ex (dated for a year and a half in college) and his wife at our wedding.

    My fiance was a groomsman in his wedding so we needed to at least invite him 😂
    In all serious he was a good friend and our relationship ended on good terms.
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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
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    Yes I am. He also happens to be my ex-husband and the father of my kiddos. He and my FH are now friends
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  • Valentina
    Devoted September 2019
    Valentina ·
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    No way🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️
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