*Warning this will be long*
hi everyone, so those of you with kids or future step kids how or are you including them in the ceremony? My FW have been together for a little over two years. We have a 5 year old son. He is a “family baby”. Biologically he is my FW’s great nephew but she has had him since he was about 6 months old. I met him a month or so after he turned two. We began our relationship as best friends and landed here! As soon as we began dating we basically lived together even though we had separate apartments. So at that point she went from single parent to two parent home. We have been raising him together since 2016 when we started dating. He doesn’t know life without me at this point and I call Him my inherited child not step child. He is my son regardless of how I became his mother. So here’s the thing. My FW felt like oh he should a ring or he should have all this extended or extr moments in the ceremony but I dont really agree. Im not marrying him he is already mine. I do Everything for school as much as she does and I feel Like hose things are for step children. We will be doing unity sand all three of us will have a color to involve him in that way but I feel Like that’s enough. This isn’t about him. His family or life isn’t changing besides the last names of his moms. Am I wrong? The ceremony is about us becoming one as a couple which will allow us to lead our strong family . Idk maybe I’m crazy.. but thoughts?!