I decided to have a nerd themed wedding (Star Wars) and lots of bridesmaids. I thought this would be a great idea. I'm quickly regretting my decision. I will be married in 3 months and my bridesmaids haven't done one thing! I only have 3 that have ordered their dress out of 10. My sister is my Matron of Honor and won't even discuss wedding stuff with me. All she says is "Just tell me what to do that day and I'll do it. It's your day so whatever you want." I want some feedback and support. I went to someone else's bridal shower yesterday and got so depressed. I feel like my bridesmaids aren't even going to be happy at my wedding. Has anyone else ever had this problem? Is it just being stressed for the wedding planning or am I validated in these feelings? I haven't had one person to go shopping with me or try to do anything wedding related. I feel like I'm making a huge mistake having a wedding. Any feedback is appreciated.