Argument

So today my husband and I got into a heated argument. Which really doesnt happen too often. It was over his friend. We recently married 5/16/20. His friend 'B' was invited to the wedding, and even said with COVID19 he would still attend. My husband sent multiple texts once the date got closer and B didn't respond and didn't show. About 3 weeks after the wedding B texts my husband and said sorry for being MIA, something came up. My husband and I were upset he didnt respond to texts and just texted him out of the blue. He wanted to stop by and drop us off a wedding card. We agreed that he could mail it instead, since that would be more convenient to us.



Well fast forward to today.. he texts my husband saying "hey I'm stopping by today after work ". Didnt ask us if that's ok, or if we'd be home; just invited himself over. I told my husband and I didn't like that, and I would prefer B mail the card ,we are busy with things today and agreed not to see B for awhile until things die down. Well my husband agrees he can come over, which I dont like. Some hurtful things were said and he ended up apologizing, but I dont know how to make my husband understand that we both must be on the same page about things. If one of us is uncomfortable with someone coming over, the other should respect that and reschedule for another time. If theres no mutual respect, this and other issues will arise.