This is going to sound really weird. My fiance has a thing about numbers and dates. We really want to do 10/2/2021 and have spent a long time looking for venues with that date. We found a venue that is a perfect fit for us but all they have is 10/23/2021 and my fiance really doesn't like that date. Now he is asking me if we can wait till 10/22/2022 to get the venue we want. I really don't want to wait another year (already been engaged for over a year and have been together for more than 6 years) but I also don't want to force him into a date he doesn't like that will forever be our anniversary. Would if be appropriate to ask the venue to reach out to the couple that booked 10/2/2021 to see if they would be willing to change their date? My brain is telling me its a perfectly innocent question but on the other hand I think it might be in appropriate to put the venue in that position or to ask another bride that.