In the beginning, my fiancé chose 9 groomsmen, and at that time I only had 7 bridesmaids. I was short two because initially, one of them was in a car accident and was suppose to be handicap for a while (including during my wedding). The other, is a diplomat for the USA and was suppose to be sent to another a country a few days before my wedding. So, I never asked them to be my bridesmaids. Meanwhile, my fiancé’s niece and sister asked if they could be a part of the bridal party. Since I was short two, I gave them the okay. Now, my friend (1) informed me that she will be healed a month before the wedding. My other friend stated she is leaving the country the day after my wedding. Please tell me what is right. I can’t ask my fiancé’s niece and sister to step down and maybe be ushers now can I? That way I can include my two friends? I want to do what is right that is why I am seeking advice. I’m not close with his niece or sister but we are cool (If you know what I mean). I told them yes because I was short two, and my fiancé is close to them. But now, my friends told me they will be well for my wedding and the other will be in the states. What do I do?
P.S. His sister or niece is not responsive when it comes to bridal or bachelorette planning stuff via group text messages (says my other bridesmaids).
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