My fiance has a sister in a wheel chair and a mild intellectual disability (he also has 4 other sisters). He has always said he would love for her to be in the wedding as a bridesmaid to give her as many normal experiences as possible since she will miss out on alot of her own milestones. While half of me would love to do it purely to be nice, the other half of me thinks it would be odd as we are not close, have very different personalities and I have more than enough people I have in mind for bridesmaids. My fiance will only have 3 groomsmen at most while I could have 5 bridesmaids if I put her in. It would also mean she requires other members of her family to be with her all day to toilet her, dress her etc. I also have 3 sisters and some best friends so I feel like it would be wrong to ask her purely because she has a disability while we have so many other siblings who won't be in the wedding. Any help or ideas would be great! Thank you
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