My mother and I have been very in sync about most decisions involving wedding planning, however, we are at odds about assigning SEATS vs assigning TABLES.
Some background - we will be having approx 150 people at tables of 8 (rounds).
I seem to think assigning a table is perfectly fine for this set up - I believe assigning seats is a large and unnecessary task that I really don't want to take on.
My mother seems to think assigning seats is a must do - siting times that she was sat at a table in which the guest chose their seats and she ended up sitting next to people she really didn't want to sit next to.
The reason I am feeling her sited situation isn't applicable in our case is because there are only 8 people at a table and if they don't like each other, I probably wouldn't have put them at the same table.
I am very aware and respectful of the combination of "my wedding, my way" and "if you pay you get a say" and believe I have done a good job of both accommodating and putting my foot down depending on the situation. I am strictly asking about assigned seats vs assigned tables.
Send all of your opinions, pros, and cons of each situation my way please and thank you!