I am a bridesmaid in my friends wedding next weekend. However, my husband found out earlier this month that his grandmother passed away. He originally told me she is being cremated, and that the family will hold a ceremony early october. Now he tells me it the same weekend as my friends wedding. Not only that it's out of state.
I don't know what to do now. I know it should be obvious and go to the funeral. However, she was one of bridesmaids and was there for my wedding. I just feel so bad, especially since she has been so stressed lately. This will just add onto it. However, if I don't go to the funeral what kind of new wife would I be? We've only been married for 4 months, and I don't want his family thinking negatively either.