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Just Said Yes May 2019

Attend the wedding or the funeral?

Felicia, on September 18, 2019 at 9:50 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

I am a bridesmaid in my friends wedding next weekend. However, my husband found out earlier this month that his grandmother passed away. He originally told me she is being cremated, and that the family will hold a ceremony early october. Now he tells me it the same weekend as my friends wedding. Not...
I am a bridesmaid in my friends wedding next weekend. However, my husband found out earlier this month that his grandmother passed away. He originally told me she is being cremated, and that the family will hold a ceremony early october. Now he tells me it the same weekend as my friends wedding. Not only that it's out of state.

I don't know what to do now. I know it should be obvious and go to the funeral. However, she was one of bridesmaids and was there for my wedding. I just feel so bad, especially since she has been so stressed lately. This will just add onto it. However, if I don't go to the funeral what kind of new wife would I be? We've only been married for 4 months, and I don't want his family thinking negatively either.
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  • RogerTrock
    Just Said Yes August 2023
    RogerTrock ·
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    It might be a good idea to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your feelings and concerns. Communication is key, and he might understand your dilemma and offer some insights as well. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all answer here. Ultimately, whatever decision you make, it's important to follow your heart and do what feels right for you and your husband's family during this challenging time.

    By the way, have you ever heard of cremation bench monuments ? They can serve as a meaningful way to remember and honor loved ones. Sending you lots of support as you navigate this difficult choice.
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    Just Said Yes July 2027
    ArnoldDonner ·
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    It sounds like having a candid chat with your husband about your feelings could really help.

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    Just Said Yes August 2024
    JoseFin ·
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    It's important to find a balance that works for both of you. If you’re looking for more guidance, reaching out to national funeral directors might provide additional support.

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