We are 22 days away from our wedding (12/05/2020). We've sent the invites with the RSVPs. Our wedding website even has a page for guests to RSVP if they lost the card, or if they want to send a personal message. We had to lower our 150 count guest list to 75 due to covid. Ok. I'm fine with that. We made a fb event so friends/family can watch the ceremony if they are unable to attend (they can even RSVP there!). My problem is this: we've received back less than a dozen RSVPs. Our 75 count is only 34 right now. More and more guests seem to be "having other things" going on the same time/day as the wedding. Really?! Because they've known about this wedding for well over a year, had the Save the Date for close to 8 months, and now the invite 5-6 months. We sent everything out early so people could plan and prepare. I understand with covid, many don't want to travel, etc. But to be told "I'm camping til Sunday night. Oops", "we're double wedding booked. Sorry", or to be completely ghosted!! I'm already stressed about finishing our wedding since I'm my own coordinator, but to now be NOT seeing RSVPs and to see excuses/ other reasons, that make no sense since they've known for so long! Is anyone else having or has anyone else had this issue?!?! I'm feeling so defeated right now!!
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