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Lynnie
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Attending a wedding where I only know the bride!

Lynnie, on September 26, 2018 at 9:12 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 11

Well, this is a first for me! This weekend I'm attending a wedding where I the only person I know is the bride!

She's one of my former co-workers and I'm really pumped to see her and attend the wedding, but my husband and I have never attended a wedding where we didn't know any of the other guests so it feels kind of weird! We're social people and I'm sure it will be fine, but it's definitely a weird feeling. I've only met the groom once, and it was at my wedding!

Any advice on attending a wedding where you don't know the other guests? Have you been in this same situation? Open to any words of encouragement! Smiley shame Smiley winking


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11 Comments

Latest activity by Kayla, on September 27, 2018 at 3:27 PM
  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    Hopefully your friend will have assigned tables and will put you with others who have common interests.

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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
    Kat ·
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    Haha love the accompanying GIF. I haven't really been put in this situation, but it's good you're social! Hopefully your tablemates are as well. Let us know how it went afterwards and any advice or lessons you learn.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I’m going to a wedding in January where I won’t know anyone and I am not a social person. my fiancé wont be able to come with me. I’m thinking of leaving early which I don’t want to but I think I’ll be really uncomfortable.
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  • DC Wife 10.27.18
    Master October 2018
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    I think if you have a few ice breaker ideas in mind it'll help with getting to know your table mates. If you're already a social person you'll be fine. My FH is the kind of person to talk to anyone and anytime. I'm the type who will talk to him like he is the only one in the room. LOL

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  • Tracy
    Super January 2019
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    I think it's fun to meet new people and observe the dynamic of different social circles. Go with an open mind, introduce yourself to people, and enjoy the day.
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  • Jules
    Dedicated January 2019
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    So this may sound strange- but this past summer my fiance and I attended a wedding where we met the bride and groom for the first time!!! Fiance is an avid gamer, and had been gaming with the groom for 10 years now, but never met in person. It was the most fun wedding we have ever been to- we had an absolute blast! Between the people they seated us with at the table, along with the dancing like no ones watching (because honestly, you'll never see any of these people again!), we just went in and tried to be outgoing and friendly! It's a wedding, everyone's there to have a good time, you'll have a blast!

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  • Melissa
    VIP October 2018
    Melissa ·
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    Yep! I have a former coworker and a few friends who know me, my fiance, and really no one else. I purposely made an effort to sit them with people who we felt they would fit in with easily. Hopefully the bride at your wedding has done the same! So take that into consideration, relax, get to know your table mates, and just have a great time Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    Yes, we went to a wedding last year where this happened! It was weird at first, but after 1 or 2 glasses of wine everyone at our table started talking about how we all knew the couple, etc. It ended up being fine!

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  • Kelci
    Super June 2019
    Kelci ·
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    I went to a wedding a year ago where I only knew the bride. It was sorta awkward but it was fine. I was sitting with a fun group of her cousins
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  • Kendell
    Savvy July 2019
    Kendell ·
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    I’m sure you’ll be able to break the ice easily whether it’s during a cocktail hour, at your table or even dancing! Weddings are a big party! Plenty of opportunities to make connections!
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  • Kayla
    September 2020
    Kayla ·
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    My FW and I went to one of her coworkers weddings in June and we only know her and met her then FW in passing. There was no seating chart,, which was ok with us. We just end up sitting with another couple who sat behind us at the wedding we had a great time. Don’t over think it it will be fine especially if you have your hubby with you!
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