August Engagement Party

I would just cancel it instead of trying to cut the guest list from 100 to 50. That might hurt some feelings and it just sounds really stressful to manage. Much less stress to just cancel it and focus on your wedding.

I wouldn’t cancel. If there’s a known restriction on gatherings people are aware of these guidelines. Go on with your engagement. Just let guests know to give you notice way in advance, especially if they know they can’t make it, so you can start filling up spots with your B list.

I would still have it, and just send a nice letter to people explaining that due to limits on gatherings you've had to cut the guest list. I think people are generally reasonable and will understand this wasn't a choice you made lightly.

Hi Lauren! I think it totally depends on how you're feeling.

If this is causing you more stress than excitement - just cancel it! Engagement parties aren't necessary, and if you'll feel more comfortable for your health to cancel everyone will understand.

If you're able to limit to under 50 guests I would think about ways to downsize to in-town guests or wedding party & family only (or close family depending on how big yours is!) I would reach out to guests personally if you can, or send them a note saying that due to the current situation you'll be having a more intimate engagement party with your family but can't wait to celebrate with them in Mexico!

Thanks for all your input! So I just spoke with the venue and we would lose our deposit if we canceled at this point But they are willing to bring the minimum spend down. So we will find out if it is 50 or 100 when it comes closer to time. If 50, it will just be immediate family and bridal party.

I honestly wouldn't cancel. I will go with a smaller list of guest. You can always celebrate as a vow renewal for another date...Im sure those who you cute will understand due to the regulations !