Did anyone else start being pressured about babies from the moment they got married?
We got married literally this past Sunday and already we have family saying "oh we can't wait to have mini yous running around" and "we are so ready for grandchildren" along with other comments to the effect of "no I don't want you to have children yet, you should focus more on establishing your career first".
I am usually pretty good at putting these things to bed because I don't have issues being stern or affirmative in settling unsolicited advice or commentary but I'm pretty taken aback by how quickly it started AND that we are both being told what to do while also being told the complete opposite.