Our wedding is in Boise next month. My husband asked his groomsmen to be in the wedding party last August, to which they joyfully agreed. A month or so later, they broached the idea of having his bachelor party. Since we're already married, they all agreed to a boy's weekend and wanted to rent a cabin in McCall, Idaho and hashed out dates for the getaway.
Fast forward to March: groomsmen ask my husband to take leave and book his flight to Idaho for June 18th, a week prior to the wedding. Mind you, this was not a cheap ticket- $500+ for a round trip-ticket. We had originally planned to drive to Idaho, but since he purchased a ticket, I will be making the 21-hour drive on my own.
A few weeks ago, my husband tries to confirm bachelor party arrangements, but is told that it "isn't happening anymore". No other explanation given. My husband doesn't push the issue. But I can tell that he feels a little bad.
I know that the wedding party is NOT obligated to do anything other than show up the day of the wedding. But I can't help but feel a little peeved that my husband was led to believe there would be a party, towards which he put in a significant financial investment, and now it just isn't happening... Thoughts?