So I need some advice..
I am the bride and my MOH is starting to plan the bach party, I told her I would help plan it since she seemed a little lost and she just wanted to make sure its what I wanted. Any way originally when the idea of a bachelorette party came up I said I just want something low key maybe a paint and sip or something. Well now a little while later I have decided I'd like to get the full party experience, go out on the town, be obnoxious and just have a good time LOL. MOH and I are super excited about this and can't wait to work out the details! There's just two problems...
1) One of my bridesmaids is my FSIL and shes (to put it nicely) a bit controlling and when she doesn't get her way she throws a fit.. I guess a while back she already started to plan a party for me without talking to anyone else about it (she still hasn't for that matter) she has t-shirts made and everything already from what her mom tells me. Shes still under the impression that I want something low key; that's probably what she would prefer too because shes a loud mouth and in a low key situation she would have a better chance of the attention being on her.. (i like her i swear 
) Anyway I just don't know how to break it to her that my MOH is already working on something else.. Should I do it and run the risk of her throwing a fit or should I have FH talk to her and just explain that something else is already being planned (this would probably lead to a less dramatic outcome but i also understand its not really his job) or should MOH do it? Either way I don't think she will be happy that I want to go out on the town but.. girls just wanna have fun, right?? LOL
2) My second dilemma is with my MOH. She lives right down town where we would be going out to that night so we could walk, but we still might need some type of transportation. She suggested that her bf could drive us around.. Now I don't want to sound ungrateful for the offer but I really cannot stand her bf and when they are together he just makes her the worst version of herself she can be.. I would just prefer not to have to be around him on a night thats supposed to be fun. Shes head over heals for this guy and I'm trying to be a good friend and support her relationship and I try to like the guy, but hes just an absolute dink.. As far as she knows I like him, so how do I tell her that I would prefer for him not to be there?? I would love to rent like a party bus or something but its not in the budget for me and I don't want to inflict any cost onto anyone else either.
Ugh sometimes I hate being so sensitive to conflicting situations. Someone tell me what I should doXD
