My SO and I are part of a bridal party. Bachelor party is in the next few months and they’ve just now hammered out details. About a month ago they quoted people 1.2k for the whole weekend which understandably all the guys flipped over.
Now or we just head that they booked part of the weekend (without checking in with the whole group) and are quoting people $700 not including what my SO paid for flights and the night in Vegas beforehand. It would end up costing him over $1,100.
My SO feels extremely uncomfortable about paying that much and feels the guy planning the party is going way overboard and not considering that other people have other life expenses (like planning for a wedding, supporting 2 people, car payments, etc.)
As unfortunate as it is my SO feels like he should just back out on the entire weekend. It’s going to up everyone else’s prices and disappoint the groom but he can’t possibly pay that. How would you go about telling the groom and BM that because of the cost to can’t make it?
thanks.
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