Bachelor Party gives me anxiety ! Anyone else?

Nope. I couldn't care less what FH does for his bachelor party -- I keep telling him that he better have strippers there because I'll most likely have them at mine!

Hhaha im not concerned about strippers at all because my FH wont even go to a strip club when his friends ask because he says there dirty , even if the guys get him one i wouldnt care i just dont want something like the hangover to happen because hes friends go wild haha

Very good way to look at it @erin i completely trust him , and my FH is the one of the group that drinks liquor and passes out sitting up haha he went to vegas with friends two years ago and they sent me pics of him passed out in the bed making fun of him because it was 930 haha , im not a huge drinker and my girls are taking me to atlantic city im super excited , but im the type that usually doesnt like going out without him because ofcourse i want him there to dance with but it will be fun to have time with my girls

Nope...I could care less what or where he goes for is bachelor party

Not worried at all, FH plays in a band and he always have girls 1/2 my age doing some really crazy stuff. He is having a huge party bus and not one of them are married and they all play in bands. Why am I not worried that he will have some young hot girl all over him? Because I trust him 100% or I wouldn't be marrying him.

I am only worried about one of them getting hurt. The bachelor party is in 1.5 weeks, same weekend as my Bachelorette party. His friends tend to get drunk and get rowdy. So, no anxiety about strippers and stuff like that but simply about them doing something extremely stupid when drunk. Luckily they have planned ahead with transportation and a hotel room but still.

Not worried about trust aspect at all my FH just cant handle his alcohol hes a lightweight he will be the one they lose and find passed out somewhere lol . Im hoping we plan to go our seperate ways on the same weekend that way were both having a great time with our friends and not being concerned haha

@miss s. thats more what im concerned about , he knows what he has at home but the drunken wild crew can tend to get into trouble lol

I kinda know what you mean. I trust my FH as well but, the last few bachelor parties he attended were pretty crazy to put it mildly. He has a couple friends that are already married but, the majority of them are single so I already am prepared for his to be just as crazy. Just make sure you have a great time at your bachelorette party and, don't worry about his. Everything will be just fine.

No, FH is pretty low-key (he use to be a wild child back when we first starting dating). He's going to a baseball game with friends and both our dads. I'm pretty sure they'll only be some beer drinking and lots of food.

Stacelynn, I totally get where you are coming from. Stupid example but it is the first one that comes to my mind: last time we went to the bar, FH and his friends were playing on a boxing machine (whatever you call that thing where you punch the bag really hard), FH hit it just right and split his hand open. Fh is accident prone like no others, add alcohol into that with his rowdy friends... yeah. lol.

My suggestion: plan your Bachelorette party the same night, so you don't sit at home worrying. This was our only request. Other than that we have been honest what was planned at the party to let each other know.

Yeah wild guys for sure. I will definitely be planning to do ours same night so we aren't worried. Even though us girls are way more responsible then the guys haha

Ya I'm similar. FH will be fine but his friends can be idiots. Whenever we all go out I have to babysit everyone and make sure they don't drive drunk which pisses me off to no end. they're renting a limo for the night though so thankfully I won't have to worry about that.

Yeah FH friends are already talking about how crazy the night will be I just keep telling myself i no my man enough to no he will drink himself to sleep early and be made fun of for it haha

Nope no worries here. FH is a grown man capable of taking care of himself. So I am totally not worried.

Nope....i actually forgot he was going on his bach party until it was the night before and he was talking about packing in the morning....oops!

Needless to say - I wasn't worried at all. He and his guys went into some kind of wilderness and did man-stuff (whatever that is)....

Not at all. My FH is the opposite of wild (ie: boring) and his best man doesn't even drink. I'm pretty sure him and his closest friends will be playing D&D and drinking a little.

Im not worried ab FH bc he doesnt drink or anything but im worried about the people he is going with. They can get out of control and always fighting!!! We are actually doing a joint one doing dinner in ac and then we are going to the club and im not sure exactly what they are doing prob just gambling or something and then meeting back up together at a bar or something. When his friends and brothers drink there is almost gauranteed a fight!!!

I see what your saying about getting hurt, fighting arrested, yeah, how long before the wedding is he going to have his party? I know we are planning on mine and his the same night but not together and it will be 3 weeks before the wedding.

If that is the case for you, if there is any fighting or arrests or bruises they should all be taken care of before your big day. (thinking possitive here) but maybe you should consider talking to your FH about having it at someones house or a driver for the night to help keep everyone inline and safe.

My remedy for this situation is have your parties on the same night! That is exactly what I am doing. you will be so busy having fun that you will barely be wondering about what he is doing. I am the type of person that doesnt like when FH is out having fun and Im sitting at home so thats why we are having our parties on the same night. we will be doing our own thing and not wondering what the other one is getting into.....lol