my first post here. Even before my fiancé and I were engaged we talked about having a Vegas wedding. Fast forward to the actual planning process and we decided to stay local due to resistance from both of our families. We went back and forth trying to decide and ultimately kept it local due to our parents being older and siblings with young children. My fiancé and I are both well past our 30s and I wanted our families to enjoy the day as well.
A few weeks ago, my fiancé informs me that he’s decided to have his bachelor party in Vegas. In particular, his one sibling was one of those against the Vegas wedding, and now he’s apparently the one helping to plan the Vegas bachelor party. Needless to say I was very hurt. When I expressed my feelings to my fiancé he just dismissed them and said there’s nothing for us to talk about. I told him more than once I am not comfortable with this and I had even suggested maybe we do a joint party there but stay at separate hotels, do separate things etc and he said no to that as well. He even went as far to suggest I just have my party locally at a spa or see a show to taunt me as he knows I am not Interested in doing those and I’d love to go to Vegas as it’s one of my favorite places I really feel this is a slap in the face to me and I’m very unhappy about it as well as his reaction to my concerns. Does anyone have any advice? I will try talking to him again but right now I’m very emotional and considering all my options moving forward. Thank you.
