We're getting married in June, and my FH has already figured out what he's doing for his bachelor party. We live in California, where he grew up, so all of his life-long friends are here and he's really excited for their getaway trip. I truly am happy that he's looking forward to it so much, but now it's making me face the reality that I don't have as many or as close of friends here as he does, and all of my family & life-long friends live out-of-state - which has left me wondering what do for a party, or if I even should do anything at all.
We don't have a wedding party, so there's no one we're leaning on to help plan these things. I have three girlfriends here in CA that are invited to the wedding, and a couple relatives on my FH's side that I could invite to a bachelorette party, but I don't know what we would even do (plus his relatives live an hour away from where me & my friends live, and have their own families). We're pretty chill and non-traditional, I'd love to do something simple and fun that won't break the bank (I've been burned by bachelorette price tags for friends in the past, so I definitely don't want that). Any ideas?
And then, there's the bridal shower. My mom offered to fly me to Iowa for a bridal shower, which I'd be down for, but I don't know if the timing will work out. Which then also begs the question - if I do a bridal shower out-of-state, that leaves out my FH's family. His family is very fond of both of us, so I feel like they would want to partake in at least a simple party. But then that's yet another get together to plan for a relatively small group of people.
This is just a lot to think about with little to no help. I believe my friends & FH's family would likely help with the respective parties if I asked them. It just seems a little overwhelming to think about all of this when I feel like I have a very small group of people to celebrate with.