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Bachelorette dilemma

Jessica, on September 17, 2021 at 6:48 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 7
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We are throwing a bachelorette party that has four people total going. One of those people are pregnant and has already expressed she would not be doing anything bar related. The bride has mostly said she would like to drink and end up at a strip club, would like it to be SpongeBob theme and for s*** to just get weird LOL. This is leaving me in a conflict on what exactly we should do we can stay local but there really are no strip clubs.



So what do you think out of these two options would be ideal. We could stay local do a group activity such as an escape room, some pregaming at the hotel, private kareoke room and then off to a local bar.
The other option is to just do a local activity then us 3 head off to Atlantic city for a savage men strip show and a local karoke bar.
The pregnant girl is our sister so we do want to include her as much as we can as well

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Latest activity by Samantha, on September 21, 2021 at 10:43 AM
  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    I would definitely go with the second option. The bride has been pretty specific on what she wants for her bachelorette, and I think she would be disappointed if you went with the first option.
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  • Jaimie
    Savvy October 2021
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    I would definitely do what the bride wants. You could always see if the pregnant friend would DD.
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  • Hannah
    Dedicated October 2021
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    I would follow the bride’s lead and maybe run the idea past her? I get that you may want to keep it a surprise but since she is so specific in her desires, maybe it would be good to run your ideas past her. From the opposite perspective, I would be really upset if my bridal party planned a huge bachelorette thing at bars and a strip club if I told them I wanted it more low key, so I think your best bet would be to check in with the bride and make sure what you’re planning is what she’s envisioning.
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  • T
    Just Said Yes September 2022
    Taylor ·
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    I would do the second option. The second option seems to be right up the bride's alley. I know its unlucky for the pregnant girl, but option 1 seems to be pretty far from what the bride would want, and option 2 is perfect for her.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    The bride wants to have fun, so I would go with the second option. The first plan sounds a bit… well… boring! Lol 😆
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  • Alyssa
    Super December 2021
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    It’s really up to the bride. If the pregnant friend isn’t comfortable coming, she doesn’t have to-it’s not her party. By the way-I LOVE THE SPONGEBOB THEME.
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  • Samantha
    Super May 2022
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    I NEED pictures after this event as I've never heard of a Spongebob themed bach party!! lol

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