Hi there,
I’m looking for a little help with a decision for my Bachelorette. For context, my fiancé and I set a date for June 2023. We have the same group of friends that we hang out with monthly. In the group, we have 3 couples (including myself and my fiancé), and 2 girls. Couple 1 is our matron of honor and best man. The 2 girls are the best man’s sister, and my fiancé’s sister. The issue comes with couple 2. Let’s call them Gigi and Mike. Mike is a groomsmen but I’ve never really liked Gigi but we hangout we don’t really talk but she’s part of the group so when we invite Mike, it’s a given that Gigi will be there (obviously because they’re a couple). I want to do an out of the Country bachelorette party, and Couple 1, came up with the idea of a joint bachelorette/bachelor party to Cancun. We would travel together and then go our separate ways. The issue with that is that it would be weird if Gigi wasn’t invited and her boyfriend was. I only wanted a bachelorette with the bridal party only and then do a separate more local bachelorette for cheaper so I can invite more people. I don’t know what to do. I’ve told couple 1 and the 2 girls, that I will not be inviting Gigi to my bachelorette because we’re not close and I don’t even like her company. They are worried for the sake of the group. Can someone please advise on this issue or have a similar experience that you can share?
Do I just bite the bullet to make everyone happy or go with my gut and not invite her?
Also, I plan on talking to Mike this week since Mike and my fiancé have been friends since elementary school and I’m closer to Mike.
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