OKay so I am planning my best friend's bachelorette party...her other bridesmaids are not much help. Right now I am designing her invites on VP, but I am having trouble wording them because I'm not sure of the etiquette that goes with bachelorette parties.
We are taking a pole dancing class, but we would like every girl to pitch in for her part. (The class is expensive!) Is it rude of me to say something like "Please bring $15 if you wish to participate in the pole dancing class?"...
Also, for most of us this is like a bachelorette weekend type of party because it is 2 hours away from where we live so we rented a really nice hotel suite w/ living room, etc to have her lingerie party in. Again, is it rude for me to say "We will be splitting the cost of the hotel room if you wish to stay overnight please let us know when you RSVP."??
Money is already an awkward thing to talk about...how do I handle this situation?! I attached some pics so you can see what I'm kinda doing. Thank You!
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