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Chrisheena
Devoted November 2019

Bachelorette malfunction

Chrisheena, on November 19, 2019 at 8:36 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 14
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This pass weekend the mother of my niece gave me a bachelorette party. Which was really nice and thoughtful of her. I gave her a list of all I wanted to be invited. So the day of the party I showed to only haveing her two friends their. LITERALLY NOOOOBODY from my list came. I found it really odd and devastating. But despite of I still enjoyed my self because it was about me. So the thought never left my mind. So I reached out to my bm and asked, did yall kno about the party? All said no they didn't kno nothing about it. AND was pretty pissed off they didn't kno. So I'm here thinking what the hell happened? That only her friends came. Should I ask her about it, or dead it and have alil bachelorette party amongst my gals n the bridal party the night before the wedding. I did book us a room. I already got the alcohol and some games to play. So I'm not stressing it. I just dont want it to be awkward when they see her. Because they feel a certain way about it. Please advise me 🤷🏿‍♀️😩

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Latest activity by MrsHamm, on November 25, 2019 at 11:48 AM
  • Shelby
    Expert November 2020
    Shelby ·
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    Hmm, that is a weird situation 😕 if it’s your bachelorette party then why did she invite her friends and not your girls who are in your wedding party and whoever else you wanted there? I would probably still do something with all of them because the other girls maybe wanted to be apart of the process of throwing you a party also.
    Good luck! 😊
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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    Thank you and I find it weird as well but it's ok I'm gonna have fun with my gals the night before
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  • Sophie
    Devoted June 2022
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    That sounds really strange. I would definitely have another party with your girls the night before!
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  • Emily
    Devoted October 2020
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    To me it sounds like she dropped the ball and didn’t invite anyone from your list in time so she had some of her friends come over. Definitely do a re-do party! If it’s awkward between them then let it be. If she forgot to invite them and they found out there was a party and ask her about it then she should expect that to happen and it’s nothing you should worry about! She’ll tell them whatever reasoning she has.
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  • Jennifer
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    Word of advice: DO NOT do the bachelorette party the nights before the wedding!!!!! Be sober the night before. No hangovers to affect how things go!


    Yes, weird as hell! I would ask her why she didn’t invite YOUR people?! That is what is supposed to happen. I’d also go ahead and have the mini-bachelorette party sometime when you all can get together....
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  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
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    That is weird is she apart of your wedding party in the first place?

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  • Cristy
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    Sounds like she made your bachelorette party all about her!! Rude.

    Ok, who knows what actually happened? But the fact is that you gave her a list of people to invite, and she completely ignored that request (from the BRIDE), and invited who she wanted. Rude.

    I would want to know how that happened, and then I would definitely plan a party with your original list and do it right! Although, you might want to rethink doing it the night before the wedding. You don't want to be paying for your fun the next day (hangover/tired/dehydrated).

    Sorry this happened.

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    That is so weird! I see nothing wrong with gathering your girls and having a get-together with them

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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    I did actually. Booked a room for us. Got some drinks and we really enjoyed ourselves.
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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    Thank you I booked a room for my gals and we really enjoyed ourselves 😁 being g as though everyone has therr lives to live. It felt good to reconnect and chill.
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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    Thank you I ended up have a sleep over and it's cool ♥️♥️
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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    No but she wanted to throw me one and I accepted it.
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  • Chrisheena
    Devoted November 2019
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    It's all good ......i gave my gals a sleepover the night before and we reminisced laughed and really enjoyed ourselves.
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  • MrsHamm
    Dedicated September 2019
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    That is a weird situation. I would go out with your girls. MoH and bridesmaids usually plan the bachelorette party. It is an honor they get for being in the wedding.

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