Bachelorette Party 2 days before

I think two days before is okay. You get a day to relax and recover and tie up any loose ends before the big day. And yes babies take up so much of your time 😩.

I plan on having my bachelorette party the night before the wedding, but it will be mostly hanging out with all my friends and not getting black out drunk. We're renting an Airbnb and just hanging out altogether. I think 2 days before is perfect and works great for people out of town

I’m doing the same, bachelorette party two days before bc everyone is out of state including me. I think that is enough time as long as its not like hangover crazy 😂😂 Good luck

I think your plan will work out just fine as long as you aren’t getting completely wasted and end up in the middle of nowhere you’ll be just fine for the wedding. Just be sure to enjoy yourself it’s your last single night and your a mom now so night off don’t come around as easily 💜

You may even end up with some local women friends having a bachelorette for you. There is more than one model for a bachelorette. It need not include your wedding party. And you may have more than one, both small, different people, one local friends, one your BP. Is your wedding still Mar 2021?
A lot can happen in a year. And Bach parties, like showers, often are given by Bridesmaids . But though usually people of your own generation, where showers may be an aunt or grandmother, both Bach and showers may be given by any close friends or family women, in the Wedding party or not, but close enough to be invited to the wedding. My wedding party were all far from me for my entire engagement. My also distant FMIL invited them to a shower 6 hours from me, within an hour of them. But 2 friends groups in different places by a few hundred miles, gave me small showers. And another in my hometown given by neighborhood women, people I had worked with or for in teens and early twenties, quilting group. So don't get anything in cement this early. Though if they are able to come a couple of days early, that may be a time for you and them alone.

View Quoted Comment I don’t have any local friends! Yes my wedding is still in March 2021. I just wanted to plan ahead so everyone can take care of what they need so they can attend. No family to do any type of showers or anything like that either everyone lives out of state and at least 5 hours away! Plus I’m having a baby in August so I won’t be in wedding planning mode for about 2 months so that’s why we are planning a lot of stuff earlier than most would.