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Beginner September 2018

Bachelorette Party-a little upset

Mariam, on September 10, 2018 at 2:18 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5
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Okay so the background to this is that my maid of honor is in a different country and my I have two bridesmaids that live here. I have one weekend left as the next one is my wedding (Friday) and no-one has planned a thing for me. I initiated the conversation and of course my bestfriend is up for it but one of bm's says she has work and I don't know about the other one. I'm not mad at them, Im sure they have their reasons but I feel like such trash. I just want to vent. Its like I never get surprises. No baby shower no surprise birthdays no bridal shower and now it seems like I'll be hosting my own bachelorette party and I just feel so sad because that means more work for me and I am already exhausted with all this last minute planning! I really wanted to go out with my girls one last time but it seems like that's not going to happen and it makes me sad. I just feel so dejected and I know it's not their fault but I just feel like it's not important to them.

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Latest activity by Mariam, on September 10, 2018 at 5:35 PM
  • Mcellist
    Super March 2019
    Mcellist ·
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    Unfortunately, if your Circle has a lot of other things going on right now, then you might not get a bachelorette party. It definitely sounds frustrating. However, I'm sure your girls love you and you never know. They may have something planned. I know for myself, I want to plan my own because my MOH dropped out & I don't want to put that burden on my older sisters ( some
    of my other bridesmaids). Just try to be patient. If no one says anything soon, just go out for a nice dinner.
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  • C
    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
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    Hey girl!! Listen, I am in the same boat, I never get surprises, and it will be fun to have one. However, I was surprised by my proposal. 😉

    my fiance is in the same situation as you. He is completely bummed that no one planned his bachelor party, so I am myself. It isn’t ideal, but I don’t want him losing out.

    Dont let planning this stress you out. Make a group chat with the girls you want to come. Start making plans with them and see who can help with the plans. You might see that they will take over the planning for you.

    This party is meant for you to help fun, so try to enjoy this. If you have to plan it, then you know you will love it!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Could you plan to go to dinner a couple nights before the weddings, when everyone is in town and available? That wouldn't be really an planning besides a reservation, then at least you are celebrating!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
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    Hi Mariam! I'm so sorry to hear that you are feeling sad about all of this, it can be so hard to get everyone together when everyone has such different schedules. I like the idea above of having a dinner and party a few days before when everyone is in town! That could be a fun way to have one last girls night as a single lady!

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  • M
    Beginner September 2018
    Mariam ·
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    Thank you! We are planning to do something of the sort Smiley smile
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