I feel a little weird/awkward asking this because I’m trying to see both sides, so please bear with me. My bachelorette party is in a few weeks- I don’t want a weekend long event or anything. I told my girls I just want one night out and maybe a hotel room so we don’t have to worry about drinking and driving.
One of my bridesmaids keeps bringing up cost and her budget which is ($100) for the entire trip. Cool- at least she’s being up front about what she can afford and I’m not mad about that.
I’ve been in 3 weddings and budgeted for $200-$300 for the bachelorette just to be safe. I guess what’s bothering me is that her fiancé hasn’t had a job in 5+ years (not because he isn’t capable, he’s just lazy) so she is the sole income for their house. Is it fair of me to be frustrated that we may not be able to stay the night somewhere because she is the sole provider and can’t budget more?Should I talk with her and let her know I understand if she isn’t able to come due to finance issues? How should I navigate this situation?
I should also add- I found an Airbnb that’s $200 for the night and I have 4 bridesmaids splitting the bill. Only other cost would be food and alcohol for the night/next morning. I feel like this is a reasonable price, but am I wrong?
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