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Lynnie Pin
Super February 2014

Bachelorette party- Do I have to invite my friends girlfriend?

Lynnie Pin, on January 7, 2014 at 1:18 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 8

Im inviting a friend of mine, christina, to my wedding. She has been with her girlfriend for almost a year now and SHE is bringing her to the wedding as well as her 1. Well for my bachelorette party, I have a feeling shes going to ask if her girlfriend can come. I have no problems with her girlfriend shes a cool chick but i wouldnt say shes my friend. In a situation like this, should i tell her No or should i just say the more the merrier? I have 20 people invitied

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Latest activity by Mallory Abroad, on January 7, 2014 at 1:32 PM
  • Thankfully Anonymous
    Super February 2014
    Thankfully Anonymous ·
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    Nope, you don't have to ask her. She's not technically your friend, and this isn't the time for a plus one.

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
    Just Reenski ·
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    With 20 people invited, let her come. It's not like she's a complete stranger, I'm sure you'll have a blast with or without her.

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  • MissMadeline
    Master June 2014
    MissMadeline ·
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    If it doesn't bother you and she wants to come, I say go ahead and invite her.

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  • Starlight
    VIP August 2014
    Starlight ·
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    If she isn't going to cause drama, I personally say why not.

    It may cause hurt feelings if you exclude her. She may not be one of your close friends but it doesn't sound like you have any huge problems with her so if your friend asks, just go with it.

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  • FutureMrsP
    Master October 2014
    FutureMrsP ·
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    IMO - I would not send her an invitation personally but if your friend asks if GF can attend and you don't anticipate any drama, I would say sure.

    I dont think that it is going to make a big difference in the long run - plus it might give you an opportunity to get better aquainted with the GF.

    After a year together, I would think that there might be a long term potential there for your friend.

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  • Theresa Beale
    Master November 2014
    Theresa Beale ·
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    I agree with the majority here. If having her there won't cause any issues/drama, I say include her.

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  • Lynnie Pin
    Super February 2014
    Lynnie Pin ·
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    Okay ill include her!

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  • Mallory Abroad
    Master October 2014
    Mallory Abroad ·
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    Honestly you can if you want but is anyone else bring their partners?

    I would be inclined to think of a bachelorette/bachelor party as a party with friends (who ever they may be) it isn't just a get another get together with friends (of courseif you are having a more casual just a drink sort of party that is different)

    I'm not a fan of people just bring partners to things or rather think that they can't spend a night away from each other. I don't get it

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